Agony Aunt Questions

Got your own agony aunt questions? Send your very own agony aunt question to our very own expert Honest Holly. Honest Holly has been healing hurting hearts professionally for many years. She is a dating expert who is here to give you dating help and relationship guidance. She has written for publications and done private and confidential face to face and online sessions for individuals, face to face and by email. She has clients all over the World for many years. She follows in the footsteps of the greats, who sadly are no longer with us…. Virginia Ironside, Katie Boyle, Deidre Sanders, Denise Robertson, Claire Rayner, Katie Boyle and Marjorie Proops.

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Each agony aunt question is answered by dating expert Honest Holly personally by email. All of the agony aunt questions are totally confidential and replied to asap – always within three working days. Please allow for weekends and bank holidays when Honest Holly does not work. Remember that your alternatives are…

To post on free forums and give your dating help or relationship guidance question to amateurs who may or may not wish to respond.  Even if they do respond you have no idea of how useful or helpful what they say will be.

To write to a magazine or newspaper asking their agony aunties to read and reply to your agony aunt question. They can take a month or more to respond. If they think your questions are juicy they will publish it in their magazine or newspaper, this is what they get in return for giving you a free reply.  And because they get thousands of questions to respond to each week they often give a very short and sweet reply which is of little use.  i.e. a link to a website or phone number. Something you could have googled in a few moments.

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These questions appeared in the Daily Mirror, a national newspaper in the UK, in 2010. Honest Holly replied to them and they always selected her answer as the one to publish and recommend. 

I have been seeing a 55 year old man for two years. We have a sexual no strings attached relationship which I have been ok with until now. He has had long term relationships and I have had none. I have no children. I rent a flat and he says he will buy me one in an exclusive development but there are conditions – no one must know about our relationship or how I got the property. He has also revealed he is staying with a woman friend who sees him as a mentor. He says he shares a bed with her but there isn’t much sex. I believe he has other partners and does not practice safe sex. I just accept it because I love him. I am not concerned about getting a sexually transmitted disease but am worried that IF I meet someone who would be a real partner I pay pass something onto him. Would it be wrong to accept this offer?

Honest Holly’s published reply was… If you accept this man’s offer you are prostituting yourself. You are likely to catch a disease from him and, if you meet another man you like you would not only risk infecting him but also have to move out of your luxurious flat – or live a life of deceit finding ways to see both of them. What will you do if your sugar daddy tires of you and wants his flat back? Will he still fancy you when you are both old? If you accept this offer it cannot last forever and you will have to stand on your own financially at some time. It may be harder for you to find another partner when you are older. Which is more important to you? Having a free flat to live in or self respect and peace of mind?

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My husband has been having an affair for three years. He thinks I do not know but it does not take a genius to work it out. She believes he will leave me for her but he will not. He won’t leave because he doesn’t have a penny to his name. Everything we have has been bought and paid for by me. He is also too lazy to contact a solicitor for a divorce as I am the one who does all of the paperwork. So his lover is in for a long wait. I believe in my marriage vows, so I won’t divorce him. Do I say nothing to his mistress while he keeps her dangling on a string or should I tell her it will not happen?

Honest Holly’s published reply was… You say your husband is lazy and stupid yet he managed to manipulate you into providing for him financially and doing boring tasks such as paperwork, and he has persuaded his mistress into providing friendship and sex. He does not sound stupid. Out of the three of you your husband has the best life and is calling all of the shots. What was so wrong with your marriage that your husband wanted to cheat on you? Why would his mistress listen to you and why would you care about her? Surely you would only tell her in in the hope that she believes every word you say and dumps him. Instead of focusing on his mistress and how horrible and lazy your husband is concentrate on how YOU feel and what YOU want. Do you want to stay married to a man who has no love or respect for you? How is this a victory? Do you have so little thought for your own happiness?

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I am a 58 year old widower with grown up daughters. I am dating a woman aged 27. We met when she used to pass my door. Then I invited her in for a cup of tea. She’s from abroad and speaks little English but we manage to understand each other. I cannot believe my luck.. because she is so beautiful. All her family overseas approve of our relationship but my daughters are driving me mad with their ranting, saying she just wants my money, which is not true. I am thinking of cutting them out of my life. She has asked if she can move in and marry me. She insists she loves me as I do her. But my daughters have put doubts in my mind after her wanting to move so fast after knowing her for just six months. Surely she would not marry or live with me if she did not love me? What do you think?

Honest Holly’s published reply was…. Your daughters cannot know for sure that she is after your money. They may be scared of losing their inheritance, she may be innocent – but I have known of women marrying a man they do not love just to have a cosy life or end up with his house. What are her circumstances? Does she own her own house? Is she short of money? Look at this with an analytical eye. Do not let this woman rush you. See how she feels about the idea of continuing as you are. Once you feel you know her well you will be clear about whether you can trust her before you marry. If she loves you she will be happy to wait, if she loses interest it was probably the house she was after.

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What is the advantage of consulting a private agony aunt  rather than write to a newspaper or magazine for free advice on your agony aunt question?

One of the problems with writing to a newspaper or magazine with your agony aunt questions is that they are snowed under with people who want to consult someone without paying. Some write to the publication on a regular basis with their agony aunt questions. This leads to the publications finding it hard to keep up with demand because they have to employ people, give them paid work, these people are there to read respond to many letters they receive. Because they are so busy their staff can only give a few moments per question.  Many who work for the publications with an online advice columnist job only write a few words and send a link to a website which may be of help to them. A link the writer with the agony aunt question could have found for themselves if they had spent some time on research or asked a few questions on google.

As a result many people are waiting over a month for their agony aunt question help.  Yet would have got a much quicker and better reply from a self employed professional. This could be disastrous if someone is relying on getting necessary guidance on a big issue such as whether or not they should leave their partner or get a divorce. Things could change dramatically during that month.

By consulting a private dating expert for relationship guidance and dating help you are avoiding the long wait, you will not be fobbed off with a link or a very short answer which leaves you feeling, rushed, neglected, disappointed and let down because you will be writing to someone who puts more time and energy into your individual email reply to your agony aunt questions. Your very own Virginia Ironside, Katie Boyle, Deidre Sanders, Denise Robertson, Anna Raeburn, Claire Rayner, Katie Boyle or Marjorie Proops.  By consulting Honest Holly, our resident advisor, you make sure you get continuity when you want to consult her personally again. This can be very important if you wish to send another question or get more insight about the same ongoing situation or you particularly like her style.

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Who is Honest Holly? She is one of those rare self employed experts.  A dating expert who gives relationship guidance and dating help.  A delightful and caring lady who has a lot of experience of advising, guiding and solving problems for people of all walks of life Worldwide with their agony aunt questions. She is very knowledgeable about many things and is very popular for help with relationships, love, dating etc. She has been healing hurting hearts professionally for many years. Honest Holly has been helping people get well paid work and helping people who need guidance for decades.

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