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Ever since a young girl I prefer older men. Think it is because my dad was rubbish and I hated him, he was violent, cold, abusive, kept telling me that he hated me and did not love me and that I would never get a man, forever criticising me, and all because I refused to stay at home all of the time doing all of the chores and housework for him. Now I've met this very nice older man who treats me like a queen. So if someone finds fault with your choice it does not mean they are right.


   
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You are right to prefer older men. My friend was younger than me and it worked well. I am level headed and mature, she was a bit immature, but it did not matter. We were drifting along as friends and I knew that I wanted it to be a lot more but was scared to tell her in case it scared her off. It was nice to see her anyway, did not want to scare her off by telling her truth, better to see her for sure.  She started getting interested in this other guy for a bit, I thought that might turn into something and was frightened to see her less or lose her but she saw me more than him, so we had something special, whatever it was, even with no sex.


   
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Nothing wrong with preferring older men. So do I. My dad was not up to much so maybe that has something to do with it, but no matter, the thing is to stick to what suits you no matter what anyone else says. If you like older and friends don't get it that is their look out, you don't have to explain it all or change to suit them.


   
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Older men can be more generous and appreciative, some of them earn a lot more money than young men. But many of the older guys I met were gross, huge stomach, smelly, no hair, ugly, bad manners, thinking that if they bought you a few bits you would over look all that. Think the worst one ever was a guy who was married and told me that if I pleasured him regularly he would buy me a pizza once a week! Wow.


   
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Luv the idea of you being an older man for me. My need is for older man. I love luv luv the ideas of a older man .  Last time I got older man he got blessed with me and child for us. Now I have a baby, baby boy to be truthful, it a lovely boy, no regrets for being blessed with child and having family now. Dating older man means he got job and he pay rent. Lot of young men no good at these and no job or money at all, want me to go without or struggle big time.


   
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