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Am desperately needing support please. I am 15 and my brother is 16. We are passionately in love and desperate to be together all of the time. We have to sneak about and rarely get a chance to kiss or cuddle or anything. We cannot afford to leave home and move out, we don't have jobs and we have no money and nobody else could help. If we told family they would shout at us and tell us off instead of helping us. Please is there anyone out there who can help us with this situation, it is tearing us apart?
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Hi honey. You do know you cannot marry a brother don't you? You can have sex with him, live with him, though in the eyes of others and the law that is all wrong. But marrying him is totally impossible, no office or church would give you permission. You can have some sort of secret ceremony which is not legal maybe if someone will do that for you, but it won't be someone like a minister. If you really love each other you can sit down and talk about this and sort out some way that you get happiness from each other without getting hurt big time as time goes by.
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Hey love that relationship is incest you can never marry your brother and if you continue in the way that you are people will find out and I gaurantee they will not be sympathetic you will be seen as weird your friends will disappear and you will become isolated. Your 15 with your whole life in front of you stop this know and in time you will meet someone you can realy love.
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