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Your mum's boyfriend is evil incarnate. If your mum had no idea of all this I would feel sorry for her but she has embraced this evil and held it to her bosom knowing how evil he is cause she must have had some idea he was this horrible, I just cannot believe there were no signs of this that others could pick up. Or am I wrong?  If it were me and my stepdad did this I would refuse to speak to him and tell everyone I can what a nasty person he is, but perhaps this is difficult around "mother" because if she does not know it causes problems there?

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Sorry but I believe that any mother should protect her daughter from men if she can. One of the things about a woman with a young daughter is she must be ultra wary about who she brings into her home to be with them, is he after the mother or the daughter or both? She may think she knows him but sometimes these things are rushed and she believes all of the lies. 

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This is owe so wrong your mum should have been looking out for you, seeing what he was trying to do and noticing how you were putting you ahead of her needs.

He only used the word love to make what he was trying to do acceptable which it never could be.

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This post has nothing to do with relationships or love. I wish you young girls would get your head out of the clouds. When a guy wants to stick his thing in you to him you are just a convenient hole. It has nothing to do with caring about you or wanting romance or a future with you. It is about sexual pleasure. Guys can enjoy sexual pleasure with a hole, a blow up doll or a woman they do not know at all. They are very different to women about this. Why do you think that so many men can good money to call girls and prossies? Would they pay them all that money to stick it in them if they did not get a lot of pleasure out of it? I promise you that if you said to this guy that from now on it costs a lot of money to stick it in you he would soon lose interest. To him this is all about finding ways to stick it on a hole without having to pay money for it. IF he had to choose between you for free or a better looking woman who charges money he picks you.. and this is exactly what is happening... he chose you because you are attractive and convenient and no charge.

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Tempting is right, though crude. It is about money, because there are plenty of women this guy could pay for sex and he does not want to go to them.  If they offered it free he would.  He is not seeking a relationship or falling in love it is all about joy and pleasure like Tempting says.  But the bit Tempting left out is this.  If this guy were to tell  you the truth you would spit in his eye and tell the police or parent or whoever could get him into trouble. He has to lie to you to get what he wants and your silence. He has to PRETEND he cares and pretend it is nice and normal, if he said it is just free sex it would not work because you would quite rightly be disgusted.. and turned off by the whole thing.

I've known guys who got engaged to a woman they do not love just to get free sex - with no intention of ever marrying her. Or they buy  her an engagement ring or eternity ring, same thing, no intention of doing the right thing or keeping promises later.  Because it is cheaper and easier to buy a ring or make a promise than to pay someone each time you have sex with them.  Guys like this do not like or respect women, they are just objects to them.  But they know they have to pretend they care and like you to get what they want.

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Love is never ever wrong, all love is pure and good. When someone presents sex to you and pretends it is love that is wrong, and it is deceitful and of the worst vibration. You need honesty when you are being intimate with someone. My sister she met a guy who wanted to lay her in bed, he told her that he was working for big modelling agency and could get her very well paid job in big top magazines worldwide if she sleep with him.  He kept on and pursue her with this.  It turned out he unemployed monster, no job at all, and all lies to entice her to give him his screwings.