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28/06/2023 7:58 am
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I know a girl of about twenty she got all keen on a guy online. Said they were in love, sent him money regular to help him pay his bills, this went on for more than a year. It all went into nothing and she never knew if he was who he said he was - he could have been a woman or a man - or someone very old or married - personally I would not want a guy who is in another country or who is short of money, cannot see the point, you are better off single then. This guy disappeared on my friend when she stopped sending him money, it was only the money he wanted.
15/07/2023 11:13 am
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This girl is an idiot. She has no self esteem if she would pay a guy money. Does she not realise that even if he came to be with her he is coming to her as a loser who relies on women for money and she would be forever taking care of him financially, like she is his mother and he is a leech?Â
23/07/2023 3:09 pm
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No. Not beware online go get online. I get my man online. He older man. He very luvely. He has nice flat, job, money, he take care of me and give me baby, lovely little boy to take care of and play with. He a gentle sole and he feel for us and cuddle us and be there for us. He much nicer man than other men I met who not online.
25/07/2023 2:59 pm
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Cannot see any point to an online relationship in first place. Never mind about beware - why bother? When I get keen on someone it is someone who lives local to me that I can regularly meet up with, not where we spend most of our time together on a computer or phone. The idea of longing to meet someone I've never met before and taking so much time and money to do it is ridiculous to me. You could dart off all over the World meeting this one and that one spending all of your time and money on lots of meets that are a disappointment OR you long to see them again and get upset because it will be a long time before you can do it again. Both are upsetting. You would never get to really know them and the real them, they can hide a lot from you when it is all or mostly online.
26/07/2023 6:18 am
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Dating sites are a waste of time. I joined one a few years ago and all of the guys who got in touch were married or bums. If that is all there is you are better off being on your own, especially if you are a woman with your own business and a good income. It's not as if you need a guy for money, more like he wants you for your money.
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