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21/07/2023 6:52 am
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What happens when you are a female and you cannot do sex? You used to be able to and you used to enjoy it but due to hormone imbalances and operations and being older it is now not possible for you. Will not explain all of the nitty gritty but believe me this is how it is. Does this mean that if you meet a new guy you should warn him that this is a problem and ask him if he is alright with dating a woman who has this problem right at the start? Does this mean that you could be scaring the life out of guys too quick before you even get to know them? Or is it good manners to warn them quick so they don't get to waste time on you and regret dating you in first place? Would they tell other guys about your situation and you become a talking point in area? Would they take the mickey out of you if it all goes wrong and you split up? Is it best to look for a guy who has his own problems, impotent? That way you are on same level and both breath a sigh of relief that the other is the same. What are your thoughts?
26/07/2023 6:26 am
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I can't do sex either - but that is because I cannot be bothered to bring a lot of excitement and fun into a guy's life if we are not in a solid long term and serious relationship. If the guy cannot be bothered to fall in love with me and marry me and take care of me I cannot be bothered to take off my clothes and jump into bed with him etc. Fair does eh. I don't miss it, don't fancy it, so it's not a problem for me. And this way when a guy takes me out or chats to me he knows he won't be getting laid, he knows that is all he will get, unless he gets more serious.
31/07/2023 6:59 am
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My partner cannot do sex. We do not know why, it is not because of physical things like a limp appendix, it is to do with fears and worries and thoughts in brain. It is scary for partner and scary for me, and frustrating for me as nothing is happening in that department at all ever now so it hurts. I need to find a release. Can someone on here offer me a free release where I phone them when I need to release and have orgasms? That way I can be relieved and comfortable and happy. I do not mind phoning you and paying for the cost of the phone calls if need be, I cannot give my number out anyway, it must be private and discreet. I am attractive and beautiful with good features.
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