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Help! I think my husband has a virtual girlfriend. My husband and I have been happily married for years . A while back, my husband bought himself a virtual reality headset. I thought it might be a flash in the pan; something he’d get bored of quickly like his gym membership or BB gun(!). Instead he spent hours at a time, engrossed in his virtual role playing games, thrashing about in our bedroom on his own, making all sorts of weird noises. Intrigued, I started watching him, without him knowing of course. I’d watch him for hours and hours. Sometimes filming him to share with my TikTok followers. As these gaming sessions continued- sometimes weekly, sometimes daily- I noticed him talking to the same person: someone called ‘Nat’ or ‘Nuts’. On top of this he would gyrate his hips and stick his tongue out most inappropriately. Could this be part of a game or is this some kind of virtual orgy? Please help. Should I be worried about my husband’s online activity?
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I'm sorry to hear the predicament you're in. I don't know youe husband but I know the type and I'm sorry to tell you he's definitely chatting to someone online. Those virtual reality headsets are only bought by one sort of bloke. He's got a pixelated bit of fluff on the side. You gotta confront him about this 'Nuts' he seems to be in love with. They sound perfect for one another
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Nobody can know if he has someone or not, he might be looking and hoping to get someone. Lots of spoken for guys go online trying to get someone and fail and keep trying and trying until they have a pot belly and grey hair. Ask yourself this, if you were a young woman who was gorgeous and your guy presented himself to you would you want him as a virtual thing or would you make sure you had someone you liked the looks of? Someone honest and single? Someone local you can easily meet up with? You would have to be pretty desperate to make do with someone who lives a long way away, is a lot older, ugly or married, let alone a mixture of some of them. Whether he has someone or not is not the point. The point is he wants someone and is not happy with you. Now what you gonna do?
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